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Dear Lili,

I missed you again yesterday on Children’s Day. Someday I hope you will come to realize who your father really is and how much he loves you, and always has. When we were separated, a big piece of my heart was torn out. I will continue to hope that you remember the happy times we shared together and that one day you will come knocking at my door. Until then

You are always in my heart.

Love always,

Your Dad XOXOXOX

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Expectations low as Hague signing approaches

Treaty seen by many as mere window dressing in hunt for international community’s approval

Several months ago I made a bet with a friend about how the Hague Convention on international child abduction will be applied after Japan finishes implementing it through domestic legislation. My bet was this: If a Japanese court ever does order the return of a child wrongfully brought or retained here, the first case will be one in which both parents are non-Japanese. Needless to say, I hope to lose.

Read full article here:

http://www.japantimes.co.jp/text/fl20120221zg.html

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You will always be my extra special Valentine!

And you will always, always be in my heart!

Love,

Daddy XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX

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Divorce and Child Custody Issues in the Japanese Legal System

Colin P.A. Jones
Professor, Doshisha University Law School

Professor Colin P.A. Jones
(Photo by Shinchosha)

Introduction

Japan has developed a growing reputation as a haven for international parental child abduction. Major media outlets in the United States and other countries have brought attention to a number of recent cases of children being unilaterally removed by a Japanese parent from the United States before or after divorce, often in violation of American law and court orders.

Attempts to achieve the return of children taken to Japan through the Japanese legal system tend to be unsuccessful. As a result, some children who were born and raised in the United States have lost all contact with an American parent and other relatives, American friends, and the American part of their heritage as a consequence. The apparent lack of legal remedies for abduction in Japan is due to a number of factors that are discussed in more detail below.

Read full article here:

http://amview.japan.usembassy.gov/e/amview-e20120201-02.html

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Hope

“Let me tell you something my friend. Hope is a dangerous thing. Hope can drive a man insane.”

– Ellis Boyd “Red” Redding (Morgan Freeman), from The Shawshank Redemption

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Courage

“I wanted you to see what real courage is, instead of getting the idea that courage is a man with a gun in his hand. It’s when you know you’re licked before you begin but you begin anyway and you see it through no matter what. You rarely win, but sometimes you do.” — ‘Atticus Finch’ from To Kill a Mockingbird

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I tried to do just that for you, Lili. I wish I could have won that one. All I ever wanted was to be a part of your life, and to protect your identity and your name.

Daddy  XOXOXOX

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“Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.”

– Martin Luther King, Jr.

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